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撒娇是孩子的天性，在孩子差不多四五个月大的时候，孩子就已经会撒娇了。在四五岁的时候，孩子虽然还没有办法开始说话，不能从言语上来撒娇，但孩子却会通过一些肢体运动，让自己的身体来跟你撒娇。孩子其实是非常聪明的，因此爸爸妈妈不要觉得孩子现在还小，似乎什么事情都不懂。事实上，孩子的撒娇一般来说都是在表达自己的需求，爸爸妈妈可以通过孩子的撒娇，了解一下孩子到底是想要些什么。
孩子六个月大的时候，身体基本上已经全部发育好了，一些必须的技能也已经发育好了。虽然现在的孩子还不能够走路，只能够在地上爬爬，吃不了很多食物，基本上日常的饮食还是以母乳为主，但是，孩子现在已经开始有了非常多的表情，肢体动作，宝宝所做出来的这些身体语言现在正在代替声音向爸爸妈妈表达自己的想法。比方说，你可以注意到孩子现在会撅嘴，会拍手，在你抱着她的时候她会窝在你怀里一动不动。这其实都是孩子的一些表达自己情绪的方式。可能代表着他或依赖，或高兴，或撒娇的想法。有时候，他仅仅就只是想要向自己的妈妈表达亲近，对妈妈表达自己的依恋与喜欢。那么，不同情况下，孩子的撒娇到底代表着什么呢？接下来就跟爸爸妈妈解释解释。
1、撒娇是为了让你答应他的要求
要是你发现孩子平时一直都非常喜欢撒娇，这时候你就要多观察一下宝宝了。宝宝在撒娇的时候可能就只是想要你答应他一些事情。比方说，如果孩子想要你抱抱他，那么孩子在看到你之后可能就会冲着你哭泣，也可能是在你抱了他之后一直在你的怀里不动，也可能是在你要离开的时候，他一直在怀里蹭来蹭去不想让你走。你看，小孩子是不是非常天真可爱，他可能就仅仅是想要和你亲近，就会冲着你一直撒娇。孩子在自己有需求的时候，就会通过撒娇这一方法来表达，爸爸妈妈在日常生活中要多注意孩子的状态哦。
2、撒娇是因为依恋妈妈
孩子天生就会特别依赖爸爸妈妈，有非常多的孩子仅仅是看到爸爸妈妈要离开自己的视线就会大哭，孩子这时候哭泣是非常正常的一件事情。这主要是由于孩子在来到这个世界上以后，见的最多的人就是自己的爸爸妈妈了。每天抱着他喂奶的人，陪着他的人，跟他说悄悄话的人都是爸爸妈妈。所以如果爸爸妈妈离开了自己的视线，他会觉得非常没有安全感，会感觉自己像是被抛弃了。因此，孩子的情感是从爸爸妈妈身上获得的，然后才会慢慢的丰富，一直到长大成人。所以，孩子小时候向爸爸妈妈撒娇是因为喜欢爸爸妈妈，想和爸爸妈妈更加靠近，不想离开爸爸妈妈罢了。
3、撒娇是一种快乐的心态
小孩子朝着母亲撒娇会觉得与人接触非常的快乐，因为母亲往往都是疼爱孩子的，会在孩子撒娇的时候温声细语，会满足孩子的一些要求，于是孩子会感到满足，也会对这个陌生的世界多了一丝认知，这会使他出现开心的情绪，渐渐的喜欢上这种情绪，也就是说撒娇会让孩子快乐。
Acting like a child is the nature of a child. When the child is about four or five months old, the child will act like a spoiled child. At the age of four or five, although the children still have no way to start talking, can not be spoiled by words, but the child will pass some body movements, so that their bodies to act like you spoiled. The child is very clever, so mom and Dad don't think the child is still small now. He doesn't seem to know anything. In fact, the child's spoiled child, in general, is to express their needs, mom and dad can through the child's spoiled child, to understand what the children want.
When the child is six months old, the body has basically developed, and some of the necessary skills have been developed. Although the child is not able to walk, only to climb on the ground, eat a lot of food, basically the daily diet is mainly in breast milk, but the child has now begun to have a lot of facial expressions, body movements, the baby made out of this body language is now instead of voice to express ideas to mom and dad. For example, you will notice that the child will pout clap now, when you hold her when she will nest in your arms motionless. This is actually a child's way of expressing his emotions. May represent him or rely on, or be happy, or act like a spoiled brat. Sometimes he just wants to express his closeness to his mother and express his attachment and love to his mother. So, under different circumstances, the child's spoiled child in the end represents what? Then explain to mom and dad.
1, spoiled to make you agree to his request
If you find the child has always been very fond of spoiled children, then you have to observe the baby more. The baby may just want you to promise him something when he's acting like a spoiled brat. For example, if the child wants you to give him a hug, then you might see in the child towards you cry, it may not be moved after him in her you have been in your arms, it may be when you leave, he has been in the arms of rubbing against you do not want go. You see, a child is very innocent and cute. He may just want to be close to you, and he will act like a spoiled brat to you. When children have their own needs, it will be through the "spoiled child" this method to express, mom and dad in daily life should pay more attention to the state of the child Oh.
2, spoiled because of attachment to her mother
Children are naturally dependent on mom and Dad, and there are so many children that it's only normal to see mom and dad want to leave their sight and cry. It's normal for a child to cry at this time. This is mainly because when the children come to this world, the most people they see are their parents. Every day, the man who was holding him and accompanying him was the father and mother who whispered to him. So if Mom and Dad were out of sight, he would feel insecure and feel like he was being dumped. Therefore, the child's feelings are obtained from Mom and Dad, and then gradually rich, until the adult. Therefore, when a child was a child, he would like to play with his father and mother because he liked his mother and father. He wanted to be closer to his father and mother. He didn't want to leave his mother and father.
3, act like a spoiled brat is a happy state of mind
The child toward the spoiled will feel very happy and contact the mother, because his mother is very fond of the child, when children spoiled the cooing, will meet some of the requirements of the child, so the child will feel satisfied, but also on the strange world of more than a trace of cognition, it will make him happy the mood, gradually in love with the emotion that will make children happy coquetry.